4th Wedding Anniversary
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Four years of marital bliss through laughter, tears and an occasional hiss. Check out my guide for clever gift and celebration ideas to impress your partner on your 4th wedding anniversary

Author: Justin AldridgePage Updated: 27 May 2024

Discover the 4th year anniversary

Four years down, eh? You’ve spent this time adapting, growing, and truly making the most of every situation – doesn’t time fly when you’re having fun! The UK 4th year anniversary is traditionally celebrated with linen and silk. I have some charming gift ideas that can reflect your shared journey up to this point.

Traditional Gift

For your UK fourth anniversary, the traditional gifts are linen and silk. These two natural materials work well together, like the two of you in your marriage. Linen is cool and fresh, reminding you of happy times spent outside. In contrast, silk is soft and smooth, bringing back memories of close, loving moments.

Linen shows strength and lasting power, reflecting the stable and enduring elements of your relationship. Silk is about the gentle, romantic side, showing how you care for each other. Together, they represent how you blend your different qualities, balancing each other out.

A gift of linen and silk for your fourth anniversary shows how your relationship has grown stable over these four years. It’s a beautiful symbol of how two lives can come together to make something wonderful.

Cup cakes anniversary sea glasss frame


A wonderful framed unique design of a pair of cup cakes with a message that you can personalize, all made with genuine sea glass. The sea glass and is collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain.

This makes for a lovely and unique anniversary or special occasion gift to give to your loved one.

Traditional Gemstone

Traditional gemstone for the UK 4th  anniversary is Blue Topaz

The traditional gemstone for a 4th wedding anniversary in the UK is blue topaz. This gemstone, especially in blue, is perfect for this occasion. It stands for love and affection, making it a great choice for an anniversary gift.

People often say that wearing topaz can help with friendship, trust, and understanding in a relationship. Blue topaz, in particular, brings soothing feelings, which is ideal for a relationship that’s grown deeper over the four years. 

The colour blue is also a symbol of loyalty and wisdom. So, giving each other blue topaz gifts is a way of showing how committed you are as a couple.

Traditional Flower

Traditional flower for the 4th year anniversary is the Hydrangea

The hydrangea is the traditional flower marking the 4th anniversary. These large, eye-catching flowers come in a range of colours like white, blue, purple, pink, and green. Even though hydrangeas originally hail from Asia, they’ve become a global favourite for weddings and gardens.

For a couple celebrating their 4th anniversary, hydrangeas represent deep emotions and a sense of appreciation for mutual understanding. Over these years, your connection has grown stronger, and the hydrangea serves as a symbol of this growth. It’s a way to say ‘thank you’ to your partner and celebrate how your relationship continues to bloom beautifully, just like the flower itself.

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Modern Gift

Besides the traditional gifts of linen, silk, and blue topaz, a modern 4th anniversary gift is appliances. This choice reflects the practical side of married life, especially after four years of building a home together.

For this anniversary, popular appliance gifts are kitchen tools like blenders, mixers, or the highly popular air fryers. It might also be the right time to replace bigger appliances like the fridge or a dishwasher. Even smaller items like coffee makers, pans, or utensils can be a great choice if you have a smaller budget.

To add a personal touch, pick appliances that match your spouse’s hobbies. Consider a new power tool for him or a special beauty device for her. Giving a thoughtful appliance shows that you understand your partner’s needs, and it’s the thought that counts at the end of the day.

How Long You´ve Been Married

4 years / 48 months / 209 weeks / 1,462 days / 35,088 hours / 2,105,280 minutes (more or less)

Fun Fact

If you lived on Mercury, you would have been married for 16.62 years and if you lived on Neptune 0.02 years…get your head around those figures!

Gift Ideas for your Husband

Looking to surprise your man with a heartwarming gesture? Check out these special gift ideas:

  • Linen shirt & pyjama set – ideal for warm weather comfort and lounging around
  • Silk robe & slippers – elevate his downtime with luxury loungewear
  • Custom photo book – reveal four years of memories with a personal touch
  • ‘World’s Best Father’ tools or mug – honour his dad’s duties in style
  • Silk boxers – treat him to the comfort of silky-smooth underwear
  • Engraved tech accessory – add a personal touch to his favourite gadgets
  • Bucket list adventure – skydiving, racing, or golfing for a once-in-a-lifetime experience
  • Funny T-shirt or custom cushion – to embrace his ‘quirky’ side (that’s sometimes a bit weird too)


Handmade framed design of a couple in love, all made with pebbles and genuine sea glass. The sea glass and pebbles are collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain.

This can be pesonalized with your own message and makes for a lovely and unique anniversary or wedding gift to give to a loved one.

Try this special wish:

My Love,

Four years down, forever to go! Who knew this journey could be so sweet? From playful first dates to now sharing a home, every moment with you is such a treat.

Through all of life’s sunny springs and stormy falls, your hand has been the one steady force through it all. My heart overflows with love and joy for the family we’ve grown.

Happy 4th Anniversary!

Love Always, XXX

Gift Ideas for your Wife

On this special day, spoil your wife with loving gifts that convey your deepest feelings. Here are some options:

  • Blue topaz jewellery – capture the sparkle of four years together
  • Hydrangea plant – express your love in her favourite colour
  • Silk robe – wrap her up in comfort
  • Silk scarf – add elegance to her outfits in her most suited pattern
  • Personalised wine glass – engraved with your wedding date
  • Silk camisole – a sleek, chic addition to her wardrobe
  • Luxury spa basket – pamper her with a selection of relaxing treats
  • Wine tasting tour – enjoy a day of sipping and discovering tastes together
  • Humorous apron or T-shirt – bring a smile to her day with a fun slogan
sea glass love birds


A wonderful handmade artwork displaying two birds in love and a heart shaped balloon, all handmade with sea glass and pebbles. The sea glass and pebbles are collected by the artists from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain. Personalized for you.

The perfect frame for an Anniversary or wedding gift.

Try this special wish:

My Dearest Wife,

Four years ago today, I vowed to love you for all of time. And now each moment spent by your side feels sweeter than wine.

From the blossoms of “I do” ’til the fruits we now have harvested, you’ve filled my life with such meaning and joy- more than I ever dreamed.

You’ve nurtured my heart, helping our love grow. Watered with kindness when difficult winds would blow.

Thank you for four years of love – I eagerly await, with my heart in your hands, our sweet future fate.

All my love, XXX

Gift Ideas for the Couple

As your friends celebrate their fourth year anniversary, I´ve gathered some fun-filled and unique gift ideas that they will love.

  • Linen and silk accent pillows – Mix textures for the bedroom.
  • Linen duvet cover – A crisp, breathable duvet cover.
  • Linen tablecloth – Elegant for romantic dinners.
  • Electrical kitchen gadgets – Hand blender or an air fryer.
  • treat them to a glass making workshop.
  • Linen couple aprons – Add a funny slogan or their photo.
  • Gift them a matching pyjama set – With a fun quote.

Endless creative ways exist to make this anniversary uniquely to the couple. Let your gifts reflect the flavours of their love.

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Fun Fact

In rural Scotland, locals love pranking engaged couples through the tradition of “blackening.” The night before their wedding, the bride and groom are ambushed and tossed in the back of a trailer for a messy ride through town. As they drive around, the kidnappers douse the victims in gross and slimy things – we’re talking treacle, pancake batter, curry sauce, feathers, and even barnyard slop! The bumpy trailer ensures maximum splatter.

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Fun ways to Celebrate

Great ideas to help you celebrate a 4 year anniversary

At home idea:

4th anniversary celebrations don’t have to be extravagant, so why not spend the day at home together? Set up an indoor picnic by the fireplace with your go-to takeout food and some fruit desserts. A cosy blanket, candlelight, and a bottle of bubbly will set the mood.

Later, play your favourite tunes for a relaxed dance session in the living room. But the fun doesn’t stop there! Round off the day with no-screen time and rediscover some old-school charm. Bake some sugary treats, read romantic lines to each other, craft DIY souvenirs, or play nostalgic board games from your childhood.

On a budget idea:

Celebrate four years together on a budget that values love over luxury. Enjoy a simple pleasure like a picnic in your favourite park. For an indoor twist, create a pillow fort for an intimate movie night.

To add to the festivities, revisit your first date spot or take turns planning cost-free outings like free museum visits or garden strolls. Afterwards, you can cook up a special meal, shimmy around the kitchen to your wedding playlist, and cherish four wonderful years together.

Remember, your presence is the greatest present. Make your 4th anniversary unforgettable without splurging.

An adventurous idea:

Make your 4th anniversary memorable by trying something new. Instead of a usual dinner, you could go white water rafting or zip lining through the woods. An ATV tour is also a great idea for outdoor lovers. Plan a camping trip, hike in a national park, or embark on a backpacking adventure to become at one with nature.

A luxury idea:

Celebrate your 4th anniversary with a sweet escape to a luxury resort. Start by unwinding with relaxing couple’s spa treatments. Later on, share some tasty chocolate-covered strawberries by the pool, and finish the day with your favourite cocktails.

Fun Fact

If you have concerns about your health or you´ve been struggling in work, someone might tell you to wear a topaz around your neck. Or at least carry one on you.

Common Questions about the 4th Wedding Anniversary

Q: What is the 4th wedding anniversary called?

A: In the UK, the 4th anniversary is known as the silk and linen anniversary.

Q: What is the 4th wedding anniversary gemstone?

A: The 4th anniversary gemstone is blue topaz. It’s associated with loyalty and love.

Q: What is the 4th wedding anniversary symbol?

A: The 4th wedding anniversary is symbolised by linen and silk.

Q: What is the 4th wedding anniversary colour?

A: The traditional colour associated with the 4th anniversary is blue or green.

Q: What are the traditional and modern gifts for a UK 4th wedding anniversary?

A: The traditional gift for the UK 4th wedding anniversary is linen and silk, and the modern gift is appliances.

Q: What is the 4th year anniversary flower?

A: The classic flower for the 4th wedding anniversary is the hydrangea. It represents gratitude, grace and beauty.

Did You Know?

Symbolic flowers for the 4th year are hydrangeas and geraniums, rare for an anniversary to have two types of flower!

All gems have a rating on the Mohs scale. The hardest stone known to man, a diamond is a 10. Topaz is an 8.

Traditional and Modern Gifts Around The World

Traditional Gift – UKLinen and Silk
Traditional Gift – USFruit and Flowers
Traditional Gift – AustraliaFruit and Flowers
Traditional Gift – CanadaFruit and Flowers
Traditional Gift – SpainLinen
Traditional Gift – GermanySilk
Traditional Gift – FranceWax
Traditional Gift – ItalyLinen
Flower GiftHydrangea/Geraniums
Gemstone GiftBlue Topaz
Modern GiftElectrical Appliances

Around the World

Fascinated by how the 4th anniversary is celebrated worldwide? Let’s take a peek into some global traditions:

  • China – The 4th anniversary is called the “silk anniversary”. Couples in China celebrate by exchanging gifts made of this elegant fabric.
  • Germany – The 4th anniversary in Germany is the “fruits and flowers anniversary”. These treats of nature are symbols of new beginnings and growth.
  • Greece – In Greece, the 4th anniversary is known as the “linen anniversary”. The strength and durability of linen reflect the bond between couples.
  • Japan – Love blooms on the 4th anniversary, which is referred to as the “flower anniversary”. Couples exchange beautiful floral bouquets in Japan to express their affection.

It’s so interesting to see how different cultures from around the world celebrate their 4th year wedding anniversary!

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About The Author

Hi! I’m Justin and I’m the typical sort of person that tends to leave things at little too late…especially when it comes to celebrating my anniversary. I started this website to help couples plan and celebrate their special occasions together. I don’t profess to know it all…but you can at least learn from my mitakes 😉 Read more about me here…

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