14th Wedding Anniversary

Looking for special ways to celebrate your 14th wedding anniversary? I’ve gathered remarkable celebration and gift ideas to help you mark this milestone with love.

Author: Justin AldridgePage Updated: 27 May 2024

Discover The 14th Year Wedding Anniversary

You’ve made it to the 14th year together; how amazing is that? This is your ivory wedding anniversary, a big milestone that opens up new chapters of adventures and memories for you both. Let’s explore some timeless gift ideas for celebrating your 14th wedding anniversary.

Traditional Gift

For the 14th anniversary, the traditional gift is ivory, which is famous for its gentle, white color and fine appearance. But ivory means more than beauty – it also represents strength, endurance, and resilience. These qualities are important in marriages that last and become deeper over time, like valuable family heirlooms.

This ivory anniversary reminds us to value the steady, caring growth of our relationships. It’s about being flexible and dependable, especially in tough times. It also means growing closer by sharing life’s journey and respecting the promises you made. For all couples reaching this milestone, remember it’s the small, daily acts of love that build a marriage that lasts many years.

14th anniversary elephants gift


A wonderful framed unique design of a pair of elephants celebrating “The Ivory Year”, all made with genuine sea glass and pebbles. The sea glass and pebbles are collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain.

The text can be personalized for you.

This makes for a lovely and unique anniversary gift to give to your loved one.

Traditional Gemstone

Traditional gemstone for the 14th year anniversary is the opal

The traditional gemstone for the 14th wedding anniversary is the opal. Opals are known for their special colors and bright sparkles, showing different rainbow shades when you look at them from different angles. They’re delicate and have a lot of character. This makes them a great symbol for long-lasting marriages, which bring so much color and joy to each person’s life.

After 14 years together, your relationship has grown from something new to something more complex and interesting, just like an opal with all its hidden colors. A successful marriage, like an opal, sometimes needs careful handling to keep its beauty safe through tough times and challenges.

Traditional Flower

Traditional flower for the 14th wedding anniversary is the dahlia

Capturing the essence of a 14-year journey, the dahlia stands as the traditional flower for this anniversary. Dahlias are vibrant and diverse, coming in a variety of colors, sizes, and shapes. Each one is unique, just like every relationship. This flower is a symbol of elegance, inner strength, creativity, and change – all vital qualities in a long-lasting marriage.

Dahlias bloom in the late summer and carry on into the autumn, representing a marriage that endures through all seasons of life. Their many petals can be seen as the numerous experiences and memories shared by a couple over 14 years.

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Modern Gift

Celebrating 14 years of marriage is special, like building something golden together. You started as two people, and now you have a strong relationship that’s been shaped over time.

Gold jewelry is a perfect modern gift for this milestone. It shines brightly and stands strong, just like a marriage that has been polished to perfection through life’s ups and downs. This bond is shaped by joy and sacrifice, gains and losses.

Gold is incredibly tough. It’s like a devoted couple who builds something beautiful every day by choosing each other. Even in times that tried to dull the shine, resilience made it brighter.

How Long You´ve Been Married

14 years / 168 months / 730 weeks / 5,113 days / 122,712 hours / 7,362,720 minutes (more or less)

Fun Fact

If you lived on Uranus, you would have been married for 0.17 years and if you lived on Mercury 58.41 years…get your head around those figures!

Gift Ideas for your Husband

Oh, how every anniversary takes you back to the giddiness of new love! But with over a decade behind you, this milestone calls for something meaningful to spoil your hubby.

  • Gold watch – engrave it with your anniversary date
  • Gold cufflinks with his initials – to customize his formal attire
  • Golden fountain pen – for capturing memories and future plans in writing
  • Elephant print in an ivory frame – enhance his space with this distinctive artwork
  • Charitable donation – a thoughtful gesture in his name to a cause he values
  • Funny elephant print t-shirt – a lighthearted gift to wear at home
Cocktail Art Anniversary CelebrationSea Glass


“Why limit happy to one hour”

A wonderful and fun, framed unique design of a selection of drinks with a quote that you can personalize, all made with genuine sea glass. The sea glass is collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain.

This makes for a lovely and unique anniversary or special occasion gift to give to your loved one.

Try this special wish:

“To my golden love,

Even after over 5,113 days of marriage, you still give me butterflies. Through a decade and a half of life’s twists and turns, we continue this dance together – through all the dips and sways and stumbles in between.

As we celebrate 14 years of laughter, cuddles, private jokes and unbreakable bonds, know you remain my safest harbor. Time has woven itself beautifully into our marriage…still I can get wonderfully lost in your smile. Here’s to many more adventures my treasure – I fall in love with you more each day.

Yours truly, XXX”

Gift Ideas for your Wife

To celebrate the spark and devotion in your fourteen years together, give something special to your wife as a symbol of your love.

  • Hand-written book – share “fourteen things I love about you” in a heartfelt note
  • Golden earrings – beautiful jewelry that goes with her favorite dress
  • Gold-dipped rose – a lasting symbol of your growing love
  • Ivory-colored lingerie – a special gift for intimate moments
  • Video montage – relive your journey together with a collection of memories
  • Engraved watches – Wear matching timepieces to celebrate your bond
  • Gold bracelet with charms – each charm representing a year of your love
  • Funny elephant print t-shirt – try this: “I like all elephants but probably only 3 people”


Handmade framed design of a couple in love, all made with pebbles and genuine sea glass. The sea glass and pebbles are collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain.

This can be pesonalized with your own message and makes for a lovely and unique anniversary or wedding gift to give to a loved one.

Try this special wish:

“To my darling wife,

Fourteen years of adventures, yet when I gaze into your eyes, it still feels like the first spark. My heart skips those same beats. We were just kids starting out on this journey, who’d have known the twists life would take?

But your hand still perfectly fits inside mine, forged together by rings and dreams come true. Your faith and love light the way, my soulmate. Like ivory we grow stronger, our kingdom built grain by grain from beautiful and hard moments.

I’d choose you always, a thousand times again. Here’s to laughing, loving and thriving through fourteen more and way beyond. You and me, forevermore.

Yours eternally, XXX”


A lovely and fun handmade framed picture toasting to a wonderful ‘X’ years together, all made with genuine sea glass. The sea glass is collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain and the message can be pesonalized

This makes for a lovely and unique anniversary or special occasoin gift to give to your loved one.

Gift Ideas for the Couple

Get ready to awe and inspire the happy couple who have been conquering life together for over a decade!

  • Custom framed print – with “14 Reasons We Love You” as a special tribute to their story
  • Coordinating accessories – stylish his and hers items for a shared fashion statement
  • Candle set – decorate their space with candles featuring elegant ivory designs
  • Montage video – compile messages from loved ones for a heartfelt surprise
  • Flowering dahlias– a living symbol of their relationship’s beauty and growth
  • Custom labeled champagne – a toast to their 14 years with personalized bubbly
  • Charity donation – honor their love by contributing to animal protection efforts

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Fun Fact

Orchids have definitely earned their title as drama queens of the flower world! As the largest and most ancient flowering clan around, they’ve perfected acts of flair over some extra decades the rest of us bloom-and-gone buds missed out on.

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Fun ways to Celebrate

Fun ways to celebrate the 14th anniversary

At home idea:

You can have a laid-back celebration at home to honor your 14-year journey. Grab your favorite glassware and etch them with dates or inside jokes that mean something to you both. Then, set the mood for a cozy dinner for two with your wedding photos, dahlias, and gold candles.

Got a playlist of songs that trace your love story? Time to hit play. Dance to the tunes that have soundtracked your journey, from the first kiss to the day you said, “I do.” Then, get comfy and laugh, cry, and reminisce over a slideshow of memories that span from hilarious to heartfelt. 

As the evening draws to a close, look ahead to the future. Write down your aspirations for the next fourteen years, seal them in a time capsule, and make a date to open it on your 28th anniversary.

On a budget idea:

To celebrate 14 years of marriage without breaking the bank, set off on a journey through your shared history with a DIY memory lane tour. Start at the place where it all began, perhaps where you first met, and then wander through the landmarks of your relationship – the site of your first date, the spot of your first kiss, or other memorable places that have special significance.

At each location, share a heartfelt memory or a story that encapsulates your time together. Bring along a small, meaningful memento from each year of your marriage. Perhaps a photo, a ticket stub from a concert you both loved, or a small trinket that holds sentimental value.

An adventurous idea:

Couple enjoying a countryside hike

Mark 14 years of marriage with an outdoor getaway that highlights enduring strength – in your relationship and within yourselves. Embark on a long-distance hike together traversing beautiful but challenging terrain, relying on communication and teamwork as you navigate. Pitch a tent under the stars in splendid isolation. Trade massages after miles of walking, laughing over memories that span the timeline of your marriage’s wild ride.

Let the metaphor of moving forward, shoulder-to-shoulder through ups and downs, echo your commitment to this lifelong adventure. No frills needed when the pinnacle is reveling in each other’s company! Cap off the trip by gifting engraved compass bracelets to remind you both of what truly guides your marriage – Through every twist, turn, stumble or fall, your loyalty and devotion leads the way. Salute to 14 years down, and the wide open road ahead still to traverse – side by side!

A luxury idea:

This year, celebrate your love in grand style on a romantic private river cruise! Spend quality time together and immortalize your 14th anniversary with some wonderful stories. As you glide on the enchanted river waters, take in an unforgettable view of the sunset with a memorable couple’s meal prepared by a chef. 

When the stars come out to blanket the night, hit the dance floor and let loose to your favorite tunes. Now, retreat to your luxe suite when the moon is still high, only to wake up to breakfast in bed.

Fun Fact

Dahlia flowers come in every color but blue. In the nineteenth century, a London newspaper offered £1 to the first breeder to create a blue dahlia—the reward has never been claimed, but there have been many attempts that are near-blue, but not a true blue flower.

Common Questions about the 14th Wedding Anniversary

Q: What is the 14th wedding anniversary called?

A: The 14th wedding anniversary is called the ivory anniversary.

Q: What is the 14th wedding anniversary gemstone called?

A: The gemstone associated with the 14th wedding anniversary is opal.

Q: What is the 14th wedding anniversary symbol?

A: The 14th wedding anniversary is symbolized by ivory.

Q: What is the 14th wedding anniversary color?

A: The colour traditionally associated with the 14th wedding anniversary ivory.

Q: What are the traditional and modern gifts for a 14th wedding anniversary?

A: The traditional gift for the 14th wedding anniversary is ivory, and the modern gift is gold jewelry.

Q: What is the 14th year anniversary flower?

A: The classic flower for 14th wedding anniversary celebrations is the dahlia. It represents elegance and dignity.

Did You Know?

The 13th floor in many buildings around the world is listed as floor 14. This is because many consider the number 13 to be unlucky, so the floors instead go from twelve to fourteen!

Chinese culture, the number 14 is considered unlucky because it sounds like the word for “certain death.”

Gold has been used to make jewelry for thousands of years.

Traditional and Modern Gifts Around The World

Traditional Gift – UKUKIvory
Traditional Gift – USUSAIvory
Traditional Gift – AustraliaAustraliaIvory
Traditional Gift – CanadaCanadaIvory
Traditional Gift – SpainSpainIvory
Traditional Gift – GermanyGermanyIvory
Traditional Gift – FranceFranceLead
Traditional Gift – ItalyItalyIvory
Flower GiftAnniversary Flower GiftsDahlia
Gemstone GiftGemstone anniversary giftsOpal
Modern GiftModern Anniversary GiftsGold Jewellery

Lighthearted Quotes

Love’s shine endures the trials of time! Let’s celebrate 14 years of ups and downs with witty words.

“When you see a married couple walking down the street, the one that’s a few steps ahead is the one that’s mad.” – Helen Rowland

“The best way to get most husbands to do something is to suggest perhaps they’re too old to do it.” – Ann Bancroft

“One of the keys to a successful marriage is separate bathrooms.” – Michelle Obama

“My wife dresses to kill, she cooks the same way.” – Henry Youngman

Marriages are made in heaven. But so again, are thunder and lightning. – Clint Eastwood

Through every twist, turn, stumble or fall, your loyalty and devotion leads the way. Salute to 14 years down, and the wide open road ahead still to traverse – side by side!

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About The Author

Hi! I’m Justin and I’m the typical sort of person that tends to leave things at little too late…especially when it comes to celebrating my anniversary. I started this website to help couples plan and celebrate their special occasions together. I don’t profess to know it all…but you can at least learn from my mitakes 😉 Read more about me here…

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